Simple sadness to hear the songs !!!
Alone at home this weekend.
Listening to some old songs sung by Landy Wen ( 温岚).
Those are fairly old songs which may be popular in 2004/2005.
One is " Angel in the Abaddon"; Another is " Two selves loving you".
The rhythm of the songs almost moves me to tears in the solitary house.
I completely get the feelings in the songs and I could now fully touch the spirit of them.
How it feels for the true sense in the cadences ?
Whereas, The stupid and dullish boy poorly can not even get it when listening to the songs during the tough period, when the bright and sunny girl recommended them to him.
The girl may try to tell him of something in the heart, however, the simple guy, with simple and pure feelings to this girl, could not feel it then.
That has been a great pity for them both, while it hurt the girl indeed.
What could we learn from this? How can we try to understand and communicate with each other thoroughly, to avoid misunderstanding and mistakes in loving?
Life is connected by a series of rings. The ring may be our each choice when facing life turning or challenges. Our last choice will affect our current position and next decision as well. Thus, we may have to be more cautious when making our fatal decisions.
We may regret doing something or hating someone or leaving somebody. We may be fool while taking such actions. We may try to hide our true feelings then and there for this or that reasons. We may also set our wits to recuperation of broken hearts...
Not like what may do after all things had happened, We have got to learn to love and forgiveness.
Forgiveness is the power from our deep love for the beloved ones.
Try not to conceal one mistake with another.
The chance for others is for the self too.
When it comes back to the songs, it really broke my bottom side of the simple heart.
I know it, and I feel it now.
But, it may be late, I think.
Just stick to the principles of your simple life, and try our very best to be as simple as we can.
That may be all we may do for this only.
Sadness continues, maybe all life long...
因为相信比较幸福 [原]
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生命中有很多个人物，可是重要的不会有几个。
很多时候我们幸福，只是我们相信因为相信比较幸福。
In Valentine’s Day， how can I believe who will be the vital one for me?
Just try to be happy because you will be happy only if you believe in happiness.
So, hold the strong belief in happiness’ existence and go ahead to reach for it.
However, in this special moment, I alone think of the one with the beautiful name.
It will be my private secret for ever, I think.
Who will it be?
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一次和朋友认识，一个很奇特的朋友。
教会了或者说纠正了我的观点。
我受益匪浅，非常的感谢。
我持有一直以为很对的经验： 人只有在失去/没有拥有的时候，才会知道珍惜。
可是，朋友说： 如果这个人或者物品，值得珍惜，那么他/它一直都会值得你珍惜，而不会因为你失去或得到而更加珍惜。
是的，如果是你真正热爱呵护的真宝，你一定会异常的爱护，不会因为失去或者拥有而产生丝毫的分别；如果有分别，我想，一定是因为还没有到达纯粹的喜欢或者爱好的程度，自然值得怀疑或者商榷。
嗯，很是道理的。所以，我接受了，这个本来于我或者我们都再浅显不过的意义。
想来，这些也许解开了我心中不久的一个心结呢。
也许无意，却往往有惊喜！
我想，我们最值得珍惜的宝贝，不一定是爱人，却一定是家人。
每一个特别的日子，莫名的会挂念家人，无论中国抑或外国的节日，许是离家许久的原因。
谢谢这位朋友先！
Not so long ago,I occasionally found that one taxi driver is reading Bibles during his driving.
I tried to communicate with this "special" man.
It seems the man is quite kind and warm and calm.
I felt at ease to talk with him and it was a strange feeling that this is a gentle man.
The content of the Bibles I read from the small handbook taught me and, I think, the driver that we’d better be generous to the mass.
The man said the right thing: The Bible, Zen, Taoism or Islamism is just a tool to instill goodness and kiness into the believers and make them more perfect.
The attitude to the belief is the key.
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